Having BV!! 😬
So so sorry if this is soo long! Please read!!!
So I found out yesterday I have Bv (bacterial vaginosis) that’s fine I’ve had this in the past..so I’ve been with my
Partner for about 9 months now, I told him I have bv and went into little details about what it really is and and he asked me if I know why I got it, I said my ph balance could be off or over grow of the bad bacteria, he said “mmmhm ok” like I literally went on google and read out to him what it is and what can cause BV, and I also said women that who are sexually acitive are more likely to get it and he said to me “are you sexually active?” And I said what are you trying to say, he said “nvm” I said “yes! We do have sex don’t we?”. I get a message last night saying how he is going to bed because he’s tired, so he will talk to me later, well that was a lie because I was up with my siblings and i go on whatsapp 2am to see him online and about an hour after he told me he was going to bed. So I woke up this morning to long messages of him saying he went to read up on it and how I left out some things and how you can get bv from having sex with different people and using condoms and how we don’t have sex on the regular and how he only used a condom once and how he truly believes I fucked someone else why I got bv.
We got into an argument and he said I created trust issues in our relationship because I’ve added guys that I actually know (not sexually, literally from school) on Instagram and liked my ex(baby father) friends that we both were friends with picture, and because I went to the cottage with my sister and group of people (you guys it was literally a full house of females and the two guys that was sleeping at the cottage was there with their girlfriend) and saying I slept out with guys, so yea I caused him to have trust issues and think I slept around and this is like the second time he accused me of sleeping with someone else and I’ve not slept with anyone since we been together and all these things he’s throwing in my face is uncalled for...so i told him he’s closed mind and he read the article
On BV and chose one think to say that’s why I have bv put o the my things that could be the cause of it..and I said to him “this is why a guy can never tell a girl about her body” he goes on to say “ok now I don’t know your body, I knew my baby mother baby and my ex, and I don’t know your body because it’s too complex” I stopped replying and he broke up with me because I hung up the phone in his ears!! I’m soo annoyed with this guy and I truly believe he really is insecure and he had trust issues before getting with me due to his past and just little things he tells me about his past and thing she says to me I put two and two together soo now he’s saying he rather get to know me first before in a relationship, etc. And how I’m taking him for a fool and he has up on his whatsapp bio “my
Baby mother wasn’t talking to different guys when we were together” and he has all his friends, family and her on his whatsapp. So now I feel like I don’t even want to get back with him at all even though his family likes him and his son loves me and my daughter loves him but I do feel disrespected to the max.
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