Consent ?

Hello ladies ! How’s everyone doing today ? I wanted to know everyone’s personal opinion on this topic because it’s been confusing me for months now. I had a guy come over one day to hangout and smoke. I asked him beforehand if it was cool if we just smoked and cuddled and fell asleep cuz I didn’t want to have Sex with him yet I wanted to see if I even liked him. He said it was ok. He gets to my house and we’re hangin out just talking and it was chill. Things escalated a little bit and there’s was some foreplay going on I didn’t touch him at all he just was all over me and I was ok with that at first but than as we were cuddling again he kind of just stuck his dick in me ... I didn’t exactly tell him no. I froze in the situation cuz I was kind of shocked he even tried it. And than after 30 seconds I told him to stop. He did and we fell asleep. I remember getting up and going in the bathroom and crying. And was just thinking to myself wtf made him think that was ok. Every guy I ask on this topic told me I should’ve verbally told

Him no. Yet every lady has said I did and he violated me. Just wanted to get your opinions!