It’s not.. I love my baby but I feel like id be more successful or enjoy it more if I had help. It’s still cold weather where I live.. I can’t even go grocery shopping without my 10 week old without dad FaceTiming me time hurry home cause he can’t console the baby. All the nights I’m up by myself he knows nothing about cause he sleeps like a baby throughout. I have absolutely no time to myself & I know that’s what being a mom is. But it’s affecting my mental health he refuses to be alone with baby for longer than 30 minutes. Tried to supplement with formula baby hates it. My husband truly doesn’t understand how mentally exhausting it can be. Not to mention I haven’t showered since Sunday. 🥴