Currently 30 weeks pregnant with my 2nd, and suffering from prenatal depression which makes my annoyance 10x worst than it usually is. She’s a real tool. Called the other day, telling my husband that I need to get a tubal ligation because she’s tired and disgusted at how difficult my pregnancies are. (First pregnancy I had induced at 35 weeks due to preeclampsia, she was kicked out of hospital room because my BP skyrocketed to a near stroke when I saw her lol) now with my 2nd, I developed depression which I’m taking anxiety medication and gestational diabetes. I cried and I screamed at my husband for not defending me by telling her that it’s NOT her decision on whether I should or will conceive more. We live across the country now so it’s not like she’s here to see me “suffer” and honestly I don’t Mind suffering because in the end it’s worth it to have my kids. Its been 3 days since the incident and honestly I’m still VERY upset. I want to be petty, I want to scream and it’s consuming me inside. I know it’s heightened due to my anxiety but I just want to punch a wall. I confided in my own mom, and even my own mother thinks she’s crazy for telling someone else’s kid to tie their tubes at age 28. Keep in mind she has a younger daughter who has 4 kids on welfare, and another older son who also has 4 kids. She’s just always been super difficult to me because I’m the soft spoken one but it eats me up inside that she treats me this way. I thought us moving 3000 miles away would avoid her. I just really need to find a way to move on from what she said, but it’s making me really upset. My husband promises that if she says it again, he’ll tell her to back off. I really hate her, and sad to say I’m the unfortunate few who has a husband’s mother who’s such a bitch. (This doesn’t include what she did during my 1st pregnancy that made me pack up my stuff and leave my husband for 3 weeks). Pray for me guys, I need the strength. 😭 due to my history of high BP, I need to be as calm, stress-free and collective as possible but this broad is making it damn near impossible.