SO troubles

*edit: his "break" is the rest of the day and night. I legit do everything else in the house and outside of the house. Essentially, he's the babysitter. He doesn't even want to talk or date. He doesn't think it's important.

Anyone else have a SO that makes you feel like you're a single parent? I work and my husband stays home. He doesn't do any cleaning. He doesn't even take our LO out of our bedroom. He watches YouTube or Hulu the whole time he has the kiddo. I get home and take over because my husband "needs a break". I did not sign up for this. I tried talking to him about it and he just gets defensive. He even said our relationship doesn't matter, only our child matters. I was a single parent for 15 years already. I know I can do it again but I will not do it while married. That is BS. Maybe expectations of men are high idk but I am not happy.