I’m beyond frustrated with my boyfriend’s mother, and her telling me what to go do. When you tell her they said no, she gets all “well I’m going to stop helping you guys.” She told me to go see if they’ll give me money off my food stamps card and they said no. We told her that and she said we’ll go to the office. The office doesn’t deal with the card, they only hand them out. We tell her this information. I also don’t have the documents they need for me to apply for temporary cash assistance. She just keeps pushing.

I’ve been applying to ten jobs a day. It’s hard and disappointing when they tell you no or you’re not qualified enough.

God forbid she says something about an agreement my boyfriend and I have that if he gets the job that pays 17.48/hr then I can stay home. The reason he said that is because we have only one car and the schedule would be from five to whenever he’s done the work for the day. So even if I had gotten a job, our schedules would clash plus figuring out childcare and a way to get home. I told him he can decide if he thinks I should work or stay home to take care of our son. His mom wouldn’t like the decision but we are adults. We live in our own place. Yes we are behind on bills because my bf decided to quit a job without having all bills paid first. I’m still looking for places to see if they’ll hire someone close to giving birth. No harm in trying right ?

What I don’t like is his mother being in our business. I’ve had a headache just from all the stress. So I avoid her questions so I can just relax and calmly thinking without stressing.