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I found out yesterday I was pregnant I’m 200+ lbs I was not expecting to get pregnant and I’m scared to death!! My bf thinks abortion is best option:( I’m scared I’m 35 never a accident and never abortion I have two kids from a previous marriage now divorced. He has 3 from previous. I was trying to loose weight! Now this my life is very stressful! I need some insight please option advice help!

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Your weight will put you at high risk but that doesnt mean you wouldnt have a healthy pregnancy- no on else can make this decision except you and dont feel pressured into it by your BF, talk to each other and come to a decision you're happy with, otherwise you will forever regret it

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I was trying to lose weight before I got pregnant as well. Because you’re pregnant it doesn’t mean you can’t still strive for a healthier life with Whole Foods and healthy exercise. You may even end up losing some weight in the first few months. As far as your boyfriend thinking that abortion is the best option, I am so sorry that he said that. That’s a tough thing to hear. You have to have a conversation with him about why he thinks that. Is it because he doesn’t see a future with you? You guys aren’t financially stable? If you figure out the root cause of his feelings I think it will give you your answer. At the end of the day, he doesn’t get to make the choice. The only choice he gets to make is whether he is going to be supportive of you/in the child’s life if you decide that you’d like to keep this baby.

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Move this to the abortion group. We will help you there without any nastiness that is bound to come here. 
But it is ultimately your choice. I am over 200 pounds and had two children at this weight. That shouldn’t be a huge issue for you unless you have other health problems.

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I had my first baby at age 40, I weighed 195 before I got pregnant. I delivered at 41 weeks and weighed 230 pounds. I had no complications during pregnancy no nausea, no high blood pressure, no diabetes, no issues at all. And deliver a healthy baby girl who will be 9 months on valentines. Only you can make that decision. But just wanted you to know a healthy pregnancy 
it can be done.

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My last 2 pregnancy I’ve hovered around 200 prepregnancy weight. I wasn’t even considered high risk.

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I was 217 when I got pregnant with my son and everything was fine. Blood pressure was normal and no gestational diabetes. My doctor was never concerned about my weight either

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I was working on getting healthier when I got pregnant. I was 220 to start. My pregnancy is going fine and baby is looking good. After she’s born I’ll get back into working out like I was. Just trying to eat the best I can.

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I was over 200 pounds for my last pregnancy and I wasn’t high risk. You will be fine. Do not abort your baby. As long as you do what your doctor says you will be fine.

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I’m 212 pounds and pregnant with baby number 2. You are going to be fine. My doctor hasn’t declared me high risk due to my weight. She even said I should be taking in an extra 300 calories a day to support my body. I’m not the weight I want to be at but babies are living miracles and a blessing. I’m only 5 foot 3 too so I’m very heavy for my height. You will be okay mama. Do what you feel is right for you and your family

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