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You aren't alone and it never was and never will be your fault. Those triggers are very real.
Me too
Reading posts of rape this morning that just popped up on here.
I’m in my mid 30s now and have never really thought too big about being rapped at 14. But now that I’m grown. Damn, I put more guilt and pressure on myself more that the rapist. I was 14 he was 22.
(He was suppose to take me home after hanging out with me and my friend, we had ditched school to drink with them, you see where I put myself at fault because I was already troubled)
After all this time, I still got a trigger from a movie I was watching last month and left the room.
I forgive my rapist, and myself just for healing and peace of mind. But those triggers are real.
Take care of your mind and spirit loves.
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You did not put yourself at fault. The only person who is at fault is the person who did that to you. It’s wrong and people know better than to do that but those are just bad people. It’s nothing you did, so don’t blame yourself 💓 I get it - I put blame on myself for a long time and finally a couple years ago I made peace with it. I didn’t do anything wrong, it shouldn’t of happened to me/us in the first place!!
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