My entire family has formula fed their babies and in no way am I dissing on it or anything, I think fed is best and who gives a shit how but I want to give breastfeeding a shot and I told my mom and sister this and they proceed to tell me horror stories about breastfeeding, how it’s so hard and how people starve their babies, and how it hurts and blah blah blah like I freaking know it’s hard but I don’t need to hear it from the people that are supposed to be supporting me in my choices. My sister told me I was “getting defensive” when I told them I don’t want to hear about people starving their babies and stuff and hung up the phone. Are they trying to force formula feeding on me or something? This is the one side of pregnancy that I fucking hate. Everyone gives their opinions and tells you all the bad stuff and they are never just encouraging and nice about anything. Even my own family has to tell me about every little thing that can go wrong. It’s not like we all already don’t know all the bad stuff that can happen thanks for reminding me. How I feed my child is none of anyone’s business and I’m just gonna be done discussing it with everyone if they feel like they want to give me their shitty opinions.