so i’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now i’m 16 he’s 18 and he’s never had sex neither have i. i’m not on the pill yet but i was thinking about getting on it except i’m not ready to have sex i just wanna know how it’s gonna treat my body... i wanna ask my mom but i don’t want her to think we’re having sex because that’s just not it i’m thinking maybe june or so to do it not like a set date just an idea of when i wanna actually have sex... does it usually affect girls badly or should i be fine if i get it in june or may then have sex then too