so this might be long , i’m posting anonymously because you never know who is this app.

so my sister has been talking/hanging out with this guy she met through xbox live many years ago . basically they started hanging out not to long ago & he is kind of bad news . he has a history with heavy drugs and is apparently clean (he got kicked out of a rehab in november). this kind of has nothing to do with it but the other day they hung out and he asked her to buy him a hat & she said no (she didn’t want to spend money because she has bills) & he started crying (not full blown but was tearing basically forming into a cry ), she found this very odd, as i did too . tonight she messaged me a picture of a completely totaled car . the car wasn’t hers so i asked who’s it was. it was her friends the one she has been talking to/ hanging out with. he was texting and driving and rear ended a car and drove off. i told my sister how illegal this is. she is the type of person to feel bad for people and hang out with them and continue talking to them to be there for them which i understand. my thing is , is that she’s been in the car with him before , what if she was in the car with him when this occurred . idt she understands the severity of this situation & i know i can’t force her or stop her from hanging out with people but like c’mon . i just don’t want her going down the wrong path and hanging out with people like this . i feel like the stunt this kid pulled was pretty selfish . he seems like the type to be a manipulator, and very selfish . to me pulling off a hit & run is selfish. he could have killed someone or hurt someone really bad by the look of the car. i’m basically posting this because i want to know if anyone has any advice i can give her to get her to really open her eyes and take a step back. i know there are a lot of trolls on here that are going to try and justify this situation and say ohh she’s an adult or can do as she pleases but she’s my little sister and i just want her to be okay and not be dragged/involved in any future situations. thank you for staying with me and reading this far .

***** so i don’t live in the same state as my sister and this guy lives an hour away from her the next state over , i really can’t report much because idk what town he lives in or his whole name . i wish i could do that, she’s really not saying much to me about it, idk what’s on her mind of how she feels .

UPDATE *************

so today i talked to my sister & it went well. she said that she wants nothing really to do with this guy friend of hers anymore . and i honestly just told her how proud i was of her . she told me that this guy is basically a little (a person that likes to act younger than their age). that honestly made a lot of sense. she hasn’t talked to him but she did send him a text saying “we need to talk”. we’re assuming he already knows what she’s going to say due to his no response. she also had mentioned that he was acting weird that past three days , she’s thinking he might be drugging again. i did ask her if she wanted to anonymously report him but she said it’s not her business and she doesn’t want to involve herself. i understand her not wanting to it’s a tough choice i’m guessing . but regardless she’s smart and is making the right decisions based on not dealing with him anymore & i’m happy that she’s smart enough to kick this guy to the curb. i just wanted to give you a little update. Also i want to thank the girls whom commented for their advice.