So my husband’s thing is bourbon. He enjoys following bourbon pages on Instagram and Facebook, collecting different types. I’m glad he has something he likes to do cool.

He went to a liquor store, I stayed in the car with our son it was awhile of him shopping around. When he comes back he said the store manager was showing him around all the different types and showed him their special back stock for VIP customers.

I didn’t think anything of it until I saw on Snapchat he has been in contact with the manager who showed him around. It’s a female which okay shouldn’t be a big deal but we have had issues in the past where is was cheating. What do you guys think of this? I know it sounds stupid but I just can’t seem to shake it that it is weird but maybe I’m overthinking it?

Edit: I’ve been reading all the comments and it definitely makes me feel better than others think it’s weird and I’m just not going crazy in my head.

He didn’t know the women beforehand it was just some random store we happened upon. This was like over a month ago. And it was just the other day that I saw they had become friends on Snapchat? So I don’t know who added who first. They obviously exchanged numbers that day. I know my husband has left his number at liquor stores so they could call him if a certain type came in. Which I understand but to be on Snapchat? Also there is a 💛 next to her name so obviously they have been snapchatting a lot within the past couple days. I haven’t confronted him about it yet I’m really trying to think how do it? Other than just straight out going and smashing his phone because I’m just annoyed

Last Update: as we are going home (had not mentioned to my husband anything) he tells me “oh we got invited to a bourbon party next weekend, but I told them we can’t go because we have plans”... so I’m like who is inviting us to this party. He says “the manager from the store we went to the other month and her husband do this bourbon tasting parties, I’d like to go sometime whenever we are free.”

So I ask, what’s her name. He said he didn’t even know! So I’m like why is she even adding you on Snapchat don’t you think that’s in appropriate?? It was also sketch because she had just made the account and right away snapchats my husband?? I don’t even know what her intentions were and I’m like telling him all these red flags on her part and his. He understands and deleted her. Which I’m glad but also don’t think I should even be going through this BS. Regardless that there was no actually cheating going on because he was honest about her contacting him, the whole situation to me just doesn’t sit well

It’s a sick feeling just feeling like you can’t trust your husband. 😓Considering what he’s done in the past I told him that anything having to do with him and social media that is sketchy just reminds me of all the BS and I’m just so done with feeling like this. I feel like if anything marriage counseling is our next step