So I live in IL and my husband’s family (and my family) live in AR. We are planning to go there for the weekend and my husband said he will tell his family we are expecting then. Honestly I kinda don’t want them to know. My MIL has made it perfectly clear that she doesn’t want anyone else in the family to have more babies because of how bad earth has gotten AND because the end of days is near. She’s very religious. I’m not religious but I do know Scripture and I seem to remember it saying that people will be having babies even right up until Jesus comes back so... If I thought she could share in my joy I’d be all for telling her. But I remember her face when she found out I was pregnant with my son who is 12 and I’m no longer sane enough to see that expression again.