So I finally told my boss. He was very understanding and very kind ! When I got back to the office after lunch I told the other 5 girls I work with! I continued with my lie of not knowing (I have head injury issues and a stomach condition that would make this going unnoticed very easy for me) and they immediately want details. So I said I will inform them after a docs appt next week.

I come in this morning and one co worker says “well this co worker overheard your sister at the bank (she’s brought me lunch before Is how they know her) say her sister is pregnant so we’ve been expecting this for weeks so how far along are you??”

At this point I’m not admitting my lie and I say I don’t know, I was on the pill and getting a cycle so I’m not sure. I message my sister and ask (she doesn’t like that I’m pregnant and never mentions me so I’m already not believing my co worker! Plus work bank is RBC and my sister works for TD) my sister says she never tells anyone about my pregnancy let alone openly talking about it with clients nearby. So she says bull shit.

At this point I feel like she’s lying to try and get me to slip up and admit I’ve know since before I got hired that I was pregnant.

I’m now an anxious wreck and pissed off that I’m the gossip of a very small office.... if it continues I’m going to my boss as I won’t be ridiculed for not saying anything when I have ZERO LEGAL OBLIGATION to tell them anything about my personal life....

rant over sorry I just needed to get that out..😭