So my cousin is pregnant with her 3rd and last baby. Her kids are 11/8 so i see how exciting it is for her to have a baby again.. shortly after they find out her sister in law is pregnant with twins!

Since then its been like a competition between them, my cousin gas been so sensitive.. but i also think its because they live in the same city and everyone loves seeing my cousins wife pregnant cus shes so pretty and petite and looks so good 3 days pp (this would be baby #5/6)

Sooo im pregnant too.. but havent told anyone, i like to wait until 2nd trimester.

My cousin is further along by like a month and me and my cousins wife are pretty much the same. I took pictures of my son for the pregnancy announcement and have been so excited to post them but was waiting for saturday to post them since ill be in my second trimester friday.

Yesterday i was on facebook and noticed my cousins wife hasn't announced anything yet and when we brought it up i asked my cousin if people didnt know or she just hasn't posted anything.. and her response was, she's probably waiting for me to post mine and then shell post hers a day later, but ill probably post mine saturday.

I hadn't realized she hadn't announced it yet either, only close people knew

My cousin is well into her second trimester so not really sure if shes waiting for a specific occasion... but although she was referring to her SIL it made me feel weird cus i was planning to post on saturday and since she already told me she's posting it Saturday shell think im trying to steal her attention..

Which im not i have just been looking forward to announce it because me and my husband were not ttc and ever since my son was a year old our family would ask whens the next and wed say hes too young, and when we decided to ttc we just went for it and we did within the first cycle, so i know it will be unexpected for everyone..

So my question is, should i not post saturday?

Wait for her to post? And how long after would it be okay for me to post?