My newborn is only 3 days old, I had an extremely traumatic Labour and a 3 way episiotomy which will take around three months to heal.... throughout the days I have had my boyfriends help when he’s not getting driving lessons and sleeping in late. It’s now 1:10am on my second night home and the second night he has not woke up to help me. I cannot sit down or walk properly due to my labour and am struggling badly. I called his name 5 times right next to him with a screaming baby and he never woke up. Eventually when he did he said he would help out and come through to change him any minute. I waited 5 minutes with baby still crying and he had gone back to sleep. I am struggling mentally having to do it through the day AND night all by myself, he just doesn’t wake up and when he does he isn’t alert or have any sense of emergency even though his son is crying. I don’t understand at all I just need a bit of help and I’m not getting that at all. What do I do? I need help because I can’t do it but I don’t have the energy to try and wake him up all the time especially when my son is screaming and crying. Can anyone PLEASE help me I’m struggling so hard!