My boyfriend is the most amazing person I know, we have such an awesome relationship and healthy dynamic, except that he was still friends with an ex that I really didn't trust.

She was always calling him to talk about her day and other very benign stuff, but I always had a sour feeling about her. He swore up and down that there were no feelings between them and that he's all mine. I trusted him, but not her... so I let it go, but asked him to be transparent about how often they talk and what she has to say, which he gladly did.

Anyways a few months goes by and we've been dating around half a year now. Things are going great, except she won't leave him alone even though he told her to give him some space and to respect our relationship.

Y'all... this girl has the audacity to fly across the country and invite herself to his house for a weekend!!! I was heartbroken, confused, and so hurt. After she left she texted him "I wanna be with you" and suddenly every awful feeling I had about her was validated. He called her right away and told her they can't be friends anymore which went over about as well as you imagine it might... Anyways, she mostly let up other than calling him once in a while (which he always ignored) and sending the occasional meme on insta.

Well, the past few weeks I'd been noticing a random account with no followers and only following four people had been watching all my stories. I didn't think much seeing as my instagram is public and sometimes random accounts show up in my views. However, today when I was hanging out with my boyfriend I noticed the account was the first to watch anything I posted even though it wasn't following me so I told him, and he realised they'd been watching his stories too!! He looked at the people it followed and they were all niche fashion and makeup brands she also happened to follow... He then mentioned that he'd blocked her from seeing his stories after she'd told him she wanted to be with him, and that's around the time I noticed this strange account.

He messaged the account "Howdy" and they responded with "Howdy" and he messaged "(her name)?"and she responded "That's me".

BITCH WHAT!!!!

We both blocked the account so fast and we also both blocked her main account. He texted her asking if she wanted to talk about that and she just said "No we're through", so he tried to call and she'd blocked him??

Anyways I'm certainly making my instagram private from now on, and we're considering the whole thing with her dropped. But honestly, this girl is 25, I've never met her, and she had been freakin stalking both of us for weeks!!!! He said he's shocked by it all, and thinks she got jealous after realising how happy we are together. I'm just left speechless and with a whole lot of questions and concerns for her mental state... Now we can laugh about it but when he first called her out I had a panic attack !

This was all just so crazy I had to tell somebody, it doesn't even feel real!! If you made it this far thanks for reading!