For two years now my husband and I are at odds over our sex life. Couldn't pay him to touch me when I was pregnant and horny asf now the roles are reversed I ended up having a c-section which was AWFUL I didn't want to see a penis but we got back to it after 6 months and he's selfish asf. Gets his nut and goes to sleep. Wants head but doesn't want to give it. He's become obsessed with what he calls projects. Repairing old game systems, starting new collections and hobbies I said to him if he put this much enthusiasm into our sex life it wouldn't suck so bad.

I contemplated cheating but immediately dismissed it for many reasons I love my husband even tho he's a selfish pendejo, why would I want to deal with another man and the karma ugh no thanks! I've found new hobbies myself but my sex drive is still high we haven't had sex in a month.

He's tried to but I'm like no way sir go rub it out. We both know he only fucks for himself might as well do it yourself leave me out of it.

Two years I've been trying to get through to this man. What else should I try? I'm all out of ideas.