My bf and I have been together for 11 months officially but we’ve been kinda together for 2 and a half years now. As you know Valentine’s Day was yesterday and we hung out. We had plans to go somewhere but he ended up not wanting to go there so we went somewhere else that he picked and after we finished eating he kept complaining. And I paid for dinner. I told him not to worry about getting each other anything for v day since our one year is next month but then it kinda hurt that he didn’t show up with flowers or pay for dinner or anything. Like I know it said it didn’t matter but Idk I just kinda thought he’d do something little like that. So we get back to his place and we’re laying down and then I turn over to face him and he’s already fell asleep. Mind you he doesn’t have a job or anything so there’s nothing he should be tired from. At this point is 7:30 and he doesn’t wake up until 10. I tried waking him up a couple times but he’d just get mad at me. So when he does wake up he ends up wanting to have sex but I had bought some lingerie and he had forgot about it so it just made me feel like oh he doesn’t even care that I went out of my way for this and now we’re not even using it. He told me to put it on so I did but when I came out and showed him he just looked at me and said oh cool. Like what? It was supposed to be like sexy you know? So we basically had a quicky for sex and he didn’t even kiss me barely or anything. He didn’t do anything he usually does. This sex sucked. And after he was done he got right up and just went on his phone. So I put on a movie and the girl in the movie asks her SO “why do you even like me” so I asked him and then he told me that he doesn’t know why I bring shit like that up and that I’m pushing him away whenever I say that and how he’s trying to teach me not to be emotionally needy. So basically my v day sucked and was not romantic at all so now idk where to go with my relationship. What would you guys do??