Was this abuse?

Question

when I was around 6-7yo my female cousin whom is one year older than me, would take me to a room and tell me to play “mom & dad” with her NAKED. and I would do it but back then I guess I really didn’t think nothing of it since I was so young... 
I also had a neighborhood friend whom was a couple years younger than me and her mom was known as the “hoe” of the hood & so she would always be home alone and whenever we would play barbies at her house when her mom wasn’t there she would always try to touch me down there, at first I would not let her but eventually I ended up giving in and let her play with my P***y ... I was probably 8yo, she was 6.

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I struggle with this same question. According to the textbooks and manuals no. Because both parties are minors but there is definitely lasting effects that should be sorted out with a professional. Personally when I was 7 my 9 year old friend would give me oral and make me kiss her even if I didn’t want to...but it seemed “normal” because my neighborhood friend and I would be very sexual in play as well (we were both between 7-8) though just implied with dolls not physical. I don’t think of my neighborhood friend as an abuser but I have nightmares where I’m stuck at a sleepover in the 10 year olds room and can even remember my pajamas like any abuse victim would. I wish that the Professionals would recognize that regardless of the age of the abuser the victim should still have the same support.

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No. There has to be at least a 4 year age gap for it to be considered so, and even then it can just be curiousity. Children do sexual things, but unless it is manipulative or hurting the other child it isn't considered abusive.

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If I’m honest it’s corruption and I’m sorry this has happened to you I’m ngl as a child some similar kinds of situations happened to me and people I knew also but I luckily got out of anything physical. I think most of these things are a great impact of parents and kids being like “sponges”. 
It’s not right but hard to call it abuse however if you’d like to you could contact me and I could speak with you better on this subject since it’s one of those things that I litterally heard of and experienced a lot of as a child and Infact realised it affects a lot. 
I’ve found ways that you can deal with, clarify and change things for yourself, and any children you may or may not have. 
It sounds like a draggg but clearly if you’re asking the question there’s something u just realised kinda like I had 🤷🏽‍♀️ I mean the helps here 🤔. 
I think this topic isn’t very clear to a lot of people or even spoken about enough and there could be things that may come to light just by having someone to speak to 💗
I’m hurrr anyway hun 💁🏽‍♀️💅🏽

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It seems like the person who did this stuff to you knew more about sex than you did. I’d say it was abuse. You were also below the age of consent

Was this abuse?

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