I need to break up with my boyfriend of 8 months, my head is just not in the right space right now.

It’s tough because I know he doesn’t want to leave, we’ve had so many conversations about this and he talks me through my feelings and in the end I’m agreeing with him that we can work this out. But when I’m alone my original thoughts come back and I just know we aren’t working out right now.

I love him so much but it is the wrong time. I’m scared of talking to him in person because of how emotional I get I don’t want to cry and make him feel bad or not be able to get my emotions across.

But is breaking up over text totally rude? Or is it better that way sometimes.