Marriage advice??

Any time baby girl gets sick, it’s like hubby and I instantly start fighting. The exact moment we need to be a team, and we’re arguing.

We have different ways of dealing with baby being sick. And all his ideas are great, if she were older. Only some of them work well with her being a baby.

It’s like we just start trying to prove whose right or wrong. I hate it.

For example, we argued over where she should sleep last night. He wanted to lay her down in her pack n play on a folded up blanket. I said she was good in her crib and the blanket idea is dangerous. This morning after her sleeping in her crib all night I get, “are you happy you were right?”

Any ideas how we can stop this?