NEED HELP 2 DUDES!!!

Okay. So.

Ladies I need help in my life.

There are two wonderful men in my life and I think both of them want me to choose them..

One is my “partner” that ive been seeing for two years.. that I’m currently broken up with

but long story short he is very jealous and hasn’t inspired me and just doesn’t do it for me sexually.

But I feel very safe with him, he’s very honest, communicative, vulnerable and attentive to me..

And the other is this incredible man that has created lots of opportunities for my growth, brought me into cranio-sacral school, turns me on like I’ve never never EVER been turned on before (we’ve not had sex but the energy is so phenomenal), and let’s me be as I am, unbounded.

But he has a “short history” of some mental illness and I have no reason not to feel safe, he’s been very honest with me about it, but I have anxiety that I will give up a safe relationship for an unsafe one. (Or one that could become unsafe)

What should I do?

Okay edit : & they both bought me tickets to a concert that I’ve wanted to see for 5 years.. and both have presented me with almost an identical trip, it involves us going to Tucson AZ

The concert is in March