Okay ladies so I’ve recently been working on my fitness and I’ve lost about 25lbs. When I started I was 217. Anyways, I go to the gym every day and limit my calories. Today when I was eating dinner my husband says, you really don’t need to eat all of that (meaning my food which was chopped zucchini, 4oz ground turkey, a bowl of low calorie soup and a wrap and hummus all together was 600 calories) I told him that I already restrict my calories as it is and why would I starve myself. He said people are going to see us in the future and say “hey I thought your wife was chubby” that really upset me. I told him I didn’t like that comment. He said he’s just trying to motivate me. But it scares me that he’s wanting me to eat even less and work out even more when that is not healthy. It hurts because I’m starting to realize he doesn’t love me fat. Also this may be the main reason we never have sex because he truly isn’t attracted to me. Am I wrong for feeling upset? When we got together I weighed about 170, but he also weighed less.