How to tell my boyfriend I want to be a stripper?

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I know he’s going to be against it. But I’m not going to be naked, I’m just going to be wearing hardly any clothes but it’ll cover up all my private parts. I know they make a lot of money and honestly rn I’m struggling with money 
I won’t be touching any guys and they won’t be touching me
I’ll just be on stage dancing
I’m embarrassed to tell my boyfriend 
But I REALLY need the money

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Honestly, you won’t make much. Being the kind of stripper you described is pretty much the one they all watch when they aren’t getting lap dances or don’t want to spend money. They might throw some pity $1s but that’s about it. And don’t be surprised if he breaks up with you over it.

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If you are that uncomfortable telling your boyfriend then how are you going to feel when someone you know (friend, brother, teacher, etc..) come into the club. I would suggest just finding a different job. Plus as others have said you’ll have to touch (lap dances) in order to really make any money

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No judgment against strippers or anything, but there are other ways to make money if you’re that desperate especially if your boyfriend isn’t on board with the idea.

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That’s tour idea of being a stripper? Is not being touched and making big bucks? Honey, you have to be in the big city to make big bucks and yes you will be touched. If you want to do it then do It your not married so you’re not committed in any way to your boyfriend. If you care that your boyfriend doesn’t want you stripping then go find a different job.

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I’ll be blunt but you are not going to make good money just by being on the stage. If you want to make the big bucks by stripping, you have to make the sacrifices and actually touch someone and have them touch you. That doesn’t mean sex but it means dancing. You sound very naive over being a stripper. I suggest actually looking into the job more before going into it because you are going to be severely disappointed with the lack of money you’ll make from refusing to do anything else besides dancing on stage. I also suggest looking into another job because based on your circumstances, you’re not going to make it in this industry.

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I mean literally just tell him
Or get another job

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Stripping like that isn’t going to make you big bucks. If you’re interested in sex work, there’s plenty of sex work you can do online completely anonymously (or not, if you don’t want to be anonymous). As for your boyfriend, it’s your life and your body, and you can do what you want with it. He has no right to tell you that you can’t do that. However, if he’s uncomfortable with it, he’s probably going to leave.

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It's definitely your decision, but it's also your boyfriend's decision if he doesn't want to be with you over that. I would say just be at peace with that if this is something you really want to do. Go for it, tell your boyfriend, but be prepared for him to leave you over it. And hey, maybe he won't, who knows? Just communicate with him.

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I agree I dont think thats going to work out as you plan. Nd you cant be a stripper nd have shame. You have to be confident in what you do nd to make real money just like any other job you have to go above and beyond it is not Easy money as people think nd it's not all that fast either you have good nights nd you have shitty nights nd he probably will break up with you nd if you're okay with that then do what you gotta do. 
I asked my boyfriend when we first started dating when I was 19 how he felt about it nd his response was you can do what you want when you single. We've been together for 7 years now.. needless to say I went a different route

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You just have to say it and recognize that there’s a good chance he won’t be okay with it, regardless of the clothing you do or do not wear. I don’t think it’s unreasonable for him to not be okay with that.

How to tell my boyfriend I want to be a stripper?

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