am i not attractive ?

so my best friend (that i’ve known since daycare) is hella pretty. she is blonde & basically perfect. she never has a problems getting w/ guys. it seems like there are dudes waiting for her to be single so they can drop in. i had one “boyfriend” in 4th grade but like that’s not real. believe it or not but i’m 14 & im 5”11

. i’ve always been tall but is tall not attractive? whenever guys talk to me it’s always about my friend. is being friends w/ her not flattering for me? i’m not going to stop being friends with her because she’s prettier than me. what should i do?

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Ch

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Literally cannot see you at all in this pic 😂 but remember that confidence is attractive! And I’m also tall (5’8) and as I got older it made me feel so beautiful to be tall. I think when I was younger it made some guys insecure when I was taller than them but honestly it’s their loss! My best friend is also GORGEOUS and I get how that could make you insecure but when we got old enough to go out to bars and stuff together we would both get a lot of attention (probably because she’s so damn gorgeous but I wasn’t complaining!) Just focus on things that make you feel beautiful and the confidence will follow. You’re still young and you will grow into yourself ❤️

Al

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Bide your time, girl. Tall is BEAUTIFUL! The older you get the broader your male horizons get, also. One of my good high school friends is 6’3. We got to college and that girl BLOOMED. She embraced her height and does some modeling and has the cutest boyfriend too. She wasn't the popular girl in school, but she always said if she could go back she would embrace her height and realize how amazing she was all along. Confidence is key, and high school boys are dumb. 🙄 Just do you girl!

ma

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i can’t see your face in your picture, but i believe everyone is beautiful. but on the other hand i understand what it’s like having friends that you think are prettier than you. but you just have to learn to accept your appearance and know that there are people out there that think you’re gorgeous. especially middle school/ high school people are more often going to be attracted to the “what society calls perfect” girls and guys because they only care about appearance. but there are going to be people you meet that are going to love every single part of you and think you’re the most beautiful thing on the planet because they love you for your personality and appearance.

Am

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Ok so don’t drop your friend because you think she’s prettier than you. That’s just petty. In the photos you look HOT. You look amazing!!!! Know that someone out there now or in the future is going to love your height, hotness, and personality. Don’t let anyone tell you anything different babe