mixed signals

december-now. please read this u can skim it i just need another persons view point on this.

1. just us two sat and talked for an hour at a party

2. me paul and steve went to steve’s house after a party. i started to walk home and he said “where tf r u going wait for me” (cuz we live a block away from eachother) and then we all ended up hanging. for 2 hours. the ENTIRE time stared at me like i am not exaggerating every time i looked over at him he would already be looking at me.

3. paul threw and by the end of the night it was just me him and jess. i was playing ps4 and i don’t how to work the control. he grabbed my hand and like moved my fingers to the controls at least 5 times. sat right next to me (legs touching) yes ik that means jack shit but there was plenty of room on the couch bc i was the only human on it

4. he threw again and i was playing the ps4 and he kept walking over and talking to me and then did the hand thing BUT when he would walk away was all over this other girl and then ended up hu that night

5. steve threw and we were talking and he took my phone and was snapping ppl and taking pics of us and THEN he invites the girl he hu w last weekend (not dating not anything everyone thought it was a one and done)

6. bella threw and i sat down and he came up to me “wow taking my seat” (jokingly) and then pulled up a chair next to me and then my friend jess leaned over “i feel like i’m third wheeling” and i didn’t rlly think anything of it like we were just talking

7. grace threw and we were gambling and we were sitting next to eachother and i wasn’t paying attention and he would put in a chip for me keep nudging me and make fun of me when i would fuck up and then my friend bella sent me a snap and was like oooo and again i didn’t think anything of it

8. he drove me home cuz he wasn’t drinking and we were talking and while he’s driving i was talking and he just looked over at me and smiled for a solid 5 seconds

so basically i’m just confused bc at time i rlly thought he was flirting and then now i don’t rlly think anything of a lot of it but then bella sent me that snap and i asked her abt it today and she was like “have u noticed for the past 2 months every time we go out you are always talking or sitting with eachohter” and i didn’t until she brought it up. and my friend jess has brought it up before “what is going on with you and paul”. but i guess i’m just confused cuz he’s been doing this and then hu w other ppl but he hasn’t hu w that girl for a month. am i overthinking this ? (like yes i am bc i pay attention to every little detail) but what do u guys think abt it