Confused??

So it’s 4 in the morning, I’m feeling on my mans dick, try waking him up to some head right. So about maybe 2 minutes in he tells me to grab the towel, you know to wipe his dick off because it’s messy obviously. I’m hella confused so in my head I’m like did you cum? Did you not? You just not feeling it rn? What’s going on right now? Anyways, I don’t say anything and I proceed to get on top of him, start kissing on his neck n shit, you know.... CAUSE I WANT SOME. Then he gonna laugh and say you not bout to get me up at 4am..... like huhhhhh????? I know he has erection issues but he hasn’t really been open about it so I’m not completely sure but when things like this happen I’m just left in straight confusion. Always feel insecure because I feel like it’s me. How’s he gonna take the head, I don’t even know if he came, and if he didn’t... stop me in the middle of it? And when he said I wasn’t gonna get him up at 4am did he mean him or his dick????? This bozo snoring rn I’m so mad. I just don’t know what to do to help if it something w his erection, or what to do period

Ill slap all y’all upside your fucking heads 😂😂😂😂 y’all making me sound ignorant. I did leave him alone after he said I’m not getting him up at 4am, very well aware of consent.... and I wasn’t pressing the issue. I was mad because we rarely have sex, we just had a conversation how BOTH of us could work on that and make time and fix it. He complains all the time how I never wake him up to head n shit and he’s told me before to just wake him up if I want it.... so that’s what I did.