If someone’s in a relationship, should they feel obligated to tell their partner how many people they slept with? (Explain)

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No. The past is the past and doesn't matter. It just matters if you have any STIs or STDs

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No, I don’t want to know

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The only time an explanation is necessary is when an unborn child or transmittable disease is involved.

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Nope, then you wanna know who and when and it gets messy. As long as you’re both clean, that’s all that matters.

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shouldn’t matter what was done before me. all that matters is he’s clean and what happens when we’re together

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Since your partner is exposed to everyone you’ve had sex with I think they have a right to know if they want to. 
Also personally I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship with someone who I couldn’t tell anything and everything to, and that includes past partners.

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I don’t feel obligated to tell my bf shit the same way I don’t want him to tell me shit and I don’t wanna know. I don’t want to think about him having been with someone else.

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No. If have no interest in being with someone who thinks that matters. All that matters is that you’ve been recently tested

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I don’t think you should feel obligated. However, it’s perfectly fine to discuss it with them if you wish to do so! As long both parties are clean and committed in the relationship, it’s fine.

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I don’t think you have an obligation to tell your partner about your sexual history if you don’t want to.
The only exception would be exposure to an STD/STI (even if it’s been treated) or any past trauma (if you’re comfortable enough to discuss is with them) so that a situation doesn’t arise where they may accidentally trigger you during sex.

If someone’s in a relationship, should they feel obligated to tell their partner how many people they slept with? (Explain)

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