Bare with me as I explain all the things that have put me off this far

I had a miscarriage back in sept. The doctor I spoke with was not very compassionate and kind of made it seem like because I hadn’t had my 1st prenatal appointment it wasn’t a big deal.

Clearly I stayed with them figuring I was just being sensitive. So then when I met with another doctor they asked me if I wanted to vbac (first two being csections) I said I wasn’t sure since I had already had two c sections and a bowel resection last year. Instead of going over it with me she said they’d just put me down for another c section. As if she wasn’t up for the conversation.

At a different visit with a different doctor the doctor was put off by my bowel resection scar when she went to check babies heart beat. She said their should be something in the notes about my resection but there wasn’t.

At my next appointment the doctor kept referring to this pregnancy as my second. I have two kids already and had a miscarriage so this is my 4th. I just feel like that’s something they should know and have in their notes.

At my last appointment I scheduled it with a doctor that I actually kind of liked, them when I got there it was someone entirely different whom I’ve never met. She forgot to offer me testing that would need to be done within the week. She called me and told me a few days later so I basically had to get the blood work done the next day or it would have been out of the time frame for it.

I have mentioned pelvic pain at my last 3 appointments. The last lady (who forgot about the blood work) told me she’d set me up with pt and that they would call to schedule an appointment. It’s been 3 weeks...

They also don’t check my urine. They only checked it at my blood work appointment and it came back with bacteria. She said if it wasn’t bothering me it was probably nothing and that they would recheck when I came back in the next week. I mentioned it but they never came back to check it.

Then they never offered me the flu shot at all. I had to ask for it.

Anyways, if you read this far, thank you. I know it seems like a lot of little things but I just feel like there is no communication and I’m just getting lost in their mountain of patients. I am a hormonal emotional mess. So I figured I’d ask and see if you guys think I’m just being sensitive or if these things are legit reasons to worry they may not be the best place to deliver.

Advice please!

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