Maternity leave Stress!

I’m a FTM and Realizing there’s only 129 days til my due date is stressing me out! Not about being with my baby or having stuff for my baby but more the maternity leave pay cut I’ll have to take! Plus paying for a baby shower! My job only pays 60% of your paycheck and I have about 2wks vacation set up but I feel like 8 wks is not enough... I would love to spend 12-16 wks with my baby before I send it off to a family member to baby sit while I go back to work and we wait for her dad to come home from deployment in October but the way my finances are looking it’s looking like I’ll only have about 8-10 wks if I can stretch the money I’m saving out long enough ☹️ this makes me so sad and stressed out! Sorry for this long ass post, I jus needed to vent this is just all I can think about recently it’s making it hard to enjoy being pregnant😔 my friends don’t understand they don’t have kids, and jus keep telling me everything will work itself out but I’m realistic! Money doesn’t just appear, so their advice is pointless.