Would you be upset?

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Okay, so last night I was looking through my bfs phone just at some old pictures that I wanted to send to myself. I was not snooping just genuinely looking for pics that I could potentially use for a collage I wanted to make. In doing so I came across a porno he made with his ex! 
To be fair it wasn’t in his phone gallery. See he has his phone linked to his gmail and if you have google photos all the pics or videos you take are automatically backed up on there. He told me he forgot to delete it off his google photos, but did delete it from his gallery. Idk what to think.. He has never given me a reason not to trust him, but I just feel like that’s something you wouldn’t forget...
I have a google photos too and once I broke up with my ex I deleted all my photos and videos with him! On top of that when I got into my relationship now I went back to make sure I hadn’t missed any for this exact reason!!! I feel like he was keeping it on purpose, but idk. Should I just give him the benefit of the doubt or should I have a right to be upset or both!!!! Idk. Need advice ladies. Thank you in advance 💕

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Just because you went through and deleted them off google photos doesn’t mean he would remember to do so himself. He deleted off his main phone gallery. You’re overreacting tbh.

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You’re reaching. I still have photos of my last relationship on google photos. I didn’t care enough to go back through everything and erase it all. He’s probably the same and just took off photos from his gallery and didn’t care enough to delete it from google. You should really just back off and don’t make it an issue, it makes you look crazy. You already brought it up to him and addressed it. But if you don’t trust him, then leave.

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If you have no other reason not to trust him I don’t think this is a reason to freak out. After break ups I’ve gone through and deleted like crazy and I’ve also not because the relationship and break up didn’t warrant a passionate enough response. I’ve also kept some photos cuz it was a good pic of me or a memory I want to keep not because of the guy but the meaning behind it. In this case where it automatically syncs I’d believe him. He deleted it off his phone and just wasn’t thinking enough to go full force, or he just spaced that it syncs like that. Hopefully he permanently deleted it now though, otherwise I would be a little mad.

Would you be upset?

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