My fiancé family wants to throw a separate baby shower after my mom tried to plan one with his family and involve them in it. I’m like no that’s not happening. They was given plenty of chances to help now last minute they won’t to plan and throw a different shower nah I’ll pass. He thinks I’m being mean to his family. But no my mom has been trying get his aunt and grandma involved but they always say no. Now all of a sudden they text him saying we are throwing you guys a baby shower I told him to tell them we will not be showing up because thats the same day as my already scheduled shower which they knew about. They all got invites. Now his family think I’m mean and unreasonable 🙄. But its like how you’ve known for 2 months the day of my shower ( I sent out invites January 5th and reminder invites February 12th both in mail and text) Now I’m the bitch because as they stated they spent money already.