Not sure what to do anymore?

Cheyennea

Where do I begin...me and my husband been together for years and been married for 1 year. I love him and dont want to leave but part of me says that's only option, he constantly complains about everything, when he's doing something he expects me to be doing it too or I'm lazy, when something or someone's makes him mad he blames it on me, he won't ever do anything for himself if he does I'm being mean or selfish, he has pushed me etc and I have photos of the bruises. We have separated and each time he says he will do better (it never gotten better) he only wants intimate time when he wants it but if I touch him when I want it he grabs my hand real hard and hurts it and says I told you to stop. He won't let me go anywhere Alone, if I want to I'm a had person supposably and he won't let me work :/ honestly there is to much to type, I catch him in lies so much. I tried to sit down and talk to him about it calm but he won't accept that..He never kisses me anymore or hugs me, I can do the laundry dishes cooking etc nothing is good enough. What's your thoughts on this? Thanks