Would you still take him?

My boyfriend and I were going to drive (in my car because he currently doesn’t have a license or car) to another state 4 hrs away to go to his uncles retirement party. His birthday happens to be the next day. Well his aunt was going to send him $80 for gas money and she said if we end up not going, he can just use that money for his birthday. My boyfriend told me we could use that money for gas because he currently doesn’t work and I need help because I’m struggling right now. Well he decided to use the money for pot instead, even though I gave him $10 for pot with the understanding that he was going to let me use the money for gas. Now he just expects me to do it for free and pay for a hotel. Would you still take him?