35 and ttc

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My husband and I have been ttc for 9 months now. I was in my 2ww and af decided to show up this morning. So many emotions... sadness, hope, frustration, numbness. I have asked my husband to go get his sperm tested and we will go from there. I've tried the fertility tea, primrose oil, pressed, coQ10. I don't know what to do anymore.