idk what to do

so 2 days ago i posted a story on my instagram and it was a picture of me. i don't really socialize with people so i don't expect anyone else but my friends to reply to my story. so then this guy junior 1 slid up with 🤩 and i politely responded with a thank you. i thought he was my age or at least in my year ( a freshmen) but he's a junior. so then he asked me for my snap and i didn't really think anything of it because i thought he was trying to be friends. so we started snapping and i found out he goes to another high-school 10 min away. then another guy slides up on it and says "you cute asllll"(junior 2) and honestly i was shocked because guys don't usually do this. turns out he's also a junior in a different highschool. so i had 2 juniors asking me ab me and when we could hangout and all that but i have a feeling they only want me so they can do things. one of them (junior 2) didn't show me their face until yesterday and he was not attractive & ik its not ab looks but i seriously felt bad because he probably thought i wanted something with him and idk how to tell him i dont feel comfortable ft with someone i don't like in that way and he keeps telling me he likes me and all that even though it's barely been 3 days. then junior 2 sounds more genuine and he isn't trying to do things right away but he wants me to hangout with him this weekend for his 10 yr old brothers bday bc he want to take him out to buy shoes. i know lying isn't right but ik if i ask my parents to go out this weekend they'll let me but i feel so bad telling him i don't want to. i really need advice on how to tell junior 1 that i don't want anything at this age and junior 2 that i don't want to hangout because it's too early and i do not feel comfortable .

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On how to tell someone that you don’t want to hang out with them: just be honest with them. Men would rather be told the truth in short opposed to being told an elaborate story. Just telling them”hey! I really don’t know you that well, but you do seem like a cool person! Maybe we could get to know eachother before hanging out. I am super busy right now with family school and friends and it would be unfair to cancel my plans with them. I am not trying to be rude, but I would love to stay in touch!”