My brother lives 14 hours away from me. He drove the distance to visit with a family member that's sick. He never mentioned to me he was coming. I spoke with him today and he nonchalantly tells me he came down here last weekend.

I expressed how upset I was, never being disrespectful. Im then told "you'll get over it".

Fuck that. I'm sick and tired of shitty family. Imo my entire family sucks at keeping up relationships. I've got 4 kids one of which he's never met yet.

I can't get a hey, hello, a hug, anything? No one in my family calls my brother to say my aunt is sick. I call him and let him know and then this.

I wish I didn't care. I really do. Being pregnant is not helping me right now. The only thing I can do is cry. As bad as I wish I could say "fuck you, you are such a piece of shit" I can't do that because I do care.

I did send him a lengthy text. But it doesn't matter. It doesn't change anything for him. He feels like he did nothing wrong im sure.

You would imagine having endured the same fucked up childhood he would have some kind of connection with me. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Why do I even care? I really truly wish I didn't. It hurts so bad.