So, for about 3 months now we have been having issues where my son wakes in the middle of the night multiple times. Sometimes you can get him back to sleep in 15-20 minutes, sometimes not for 3 hours. I read the book the no cry sleep method and we were already doing everything in the book but introducing a sleep buddy which we have now done. But nothing was stopping the wakings. So I tried 2 different cry it out methods (extinction and Ferber) and neither of those addressed the waking in the middle of the night. At this point I’ve given up and he’s finally sleeping in our bed all night for the second night in a row. I just can’t fight him anymore I’m tired. Husband is tired. And I’m defeated. On top of that my husband is being demoted at work so he’s looking for a new job so his focus is entirely on that and I’m feeling overwhelmed. This life is so hard, I want to enjoy it again.