So on November 8th we found out we were expecting a week later we went back to the hospital because i started spotting (and my insurance hadn't started yet for my new jobn i had no obgyn) they said i had no fetal pole to come back a week later we went back now i was measuring at 7 week with no fetal pole but they wouldnt do a dnc they said to just let my body go through it ....fast foward into December i start hemorrhaging at work drive myseld to the hospital get there drenched in blood they rush me back admitt me n gave me pain med pitocin n a shot to stop the bleeding the next day sent me home no dnc....on the 25 i start hemorrhaging again drive myself back to the hospital n they admitt me again no dnc sent me home on january 27th i finally get my insurance squared away n get my dnc ....my question is is it normal to have post partum im so depressed picking fights with my fiance for jo good reason....i need help please