Should i head to the ER?

Its been 3 days and ive had menstrual cramping off and on, feel so sick like i have the flu and i cant stop pooping- half the time theres nothing there!( TMI sorry) im SWOLLEN and i can barely even sit without feeling like my babys head is going to pop out. I get random bursts of energy then i feel the need to drop and sleep, When i pee i have to pee 10 second later. When i had my appointment dr confirmed my cervix is closed but uts literally so soft and my cervix is up earlier than expected.

Im so uncomfortable and nothing helps.