How do I handle this?

My parents have been very rough on me through the first month of this pregnancy (I’m 9 weeks and 3 days) they have made a big deal over my boyfriend, they won’t talk to him, my mom has threatened us with a lawyer to take parental rights and custody away from my boyfriend (which I do not support), my dad won’t talk to me or look at me, and gets super agitated when we talk about it, he then calls me fat and proceeds to tell me to work out more and that I’m not doing enough, my mom does not like my boyfriends family because she doesn’t agree with spending the night or weekend with someone when you aren’t married, and was very upset that his parents and him told their whole extended family and that she was the “last to know” which is not true because I found out today that she told my extended family and didn’t tell me while my boyfriend was aware of who had found out, and my mom was pressuring me to do so while knowing I was anxious about it. Both of my parents also told me that because I am pregnant out of wedlock without a real life job (I am in school right now to advance my in a medical career, and I do have a full time job while attending school to pay bills and appointments and stuff) that I will have ashamed my Mexican side of the family, and my father does not want me posting anything at all about the pregnancy, even got in my face and on my level screaming at me about how I did this to him and everyone else, that it was my fault, and my mom keeps telling me that I can’t post, that I have to wait till I’m three months then the end of 12weeks, then 20, and then not thill the baby is born at all, they won’t talk to my boyfriend or his family, they are mad that he’s paying for my appointments and helping me out because they don’t want him too, they’re mad that his mom bought me books and that they are building a nursery and planning a baby shower, but tell me they don’t want to create a nursery if they don’t have too and that I needed to ask for a gender reveal party and baby shower if I wanted one, while his parents said it wasn’t a question at all. They won’t let him into our house, they won’t let him come when the baby is due, they don’t like our arrangement for when the baby is here and have pretty much made me the maid of our house and if I don’t do something to their expectations I’m never going to be a good mother and my child isn’t going to have a good example and then my mom says she’ll get a lawyer to sue for sole custody of I won’t because I’m choosing a man over my baby and I’m not “acting” like any real woman would, my boyfriend has never done anything wrong. He’s an EMT, he’s always supported me, he pays for our appointments, dates, we’ve never cheated on each other, he’s financially able and stable, and can support all three of us if necessary, so my mom wouldn’t have legal grounds anyways, another thing she likes to tell me is that the baby will not have his name and if we aren’t engaged or married he will not be on the birth certificate. And I’m just tired of all of this hostility and negativity, and after what I found out today she cannot be yelling at me about stuff my boyfriend and his family did because she did the same and lied to me about it. I’m moving to my uncles house at the end of this month to watch it for him, but after that I don’t know if my boyfriends family would let me move in or if I’d have to go back to my parents house. My boyfriend deserves to be apart of his child’s life and we have arrangements in place, my parents are the only ones acting like this and causing problems and putting kinks in our plans and things we have come up with to make this manageable for everyone and it’s put me in a position where his parents and him are the best place for me to be. I just don’t really know what to do. Or how to handle it, so any advice or shared experiences would be really helpful and appreciated