I've always considered myself a total potato. But this school year I started going to a new school and I went to homecoming with a boy (I'll call bf) who is just as shy as I am. I asked him to be my boyfriend in December and he said yes. Fast forward to this semester and we joined the same gym class with a mutual friend(I'll call T). Me and bf don't talk very often and we talked about why(we both feel insecure and annoying) but we still hang out in silence. T would hang out with us and apparently didn't know we're dating. T asked my sister if I was interested in him because he wanted to ask me out. She told him that I have a boyfriend, and I think he might be avoiding me now? I shouldn't know, so I'm going to keep pretending I don't, but he's sweet and nice(though not attractive) and we talk more than me and bf. He is always complimenting me and if I was single, I'd totally agree to date him. At the same time bf hasn't even held my hand, and I've debated whether or not to break up with him before. They're both so nice and I don't want to hurt either of them or our/their friendship, but idk. I won't see either of them because school is closed and we're not supposed to leave home until spring break starts.