Mom makes fun of my eating disorder

Has anyone else’s family made fun of or made rude comments about their Ed? The other day my mom was eating a donut and I didn’t eat one and since I didn’t eat a donut she said, “you probably think you are above eating donuts.” That comment really hurt because my eating disorder is not me thinking my diet is better than anyone else’s, if I could control my ed more I would. It’s not something I chose to have. I am currently in recovery and my mom acts like my ed is my fault and gets mad at me for it. Also when I don’t eat a lot or I eat really healthy she gets mad and says, “you better not be getting into your old habits, we’re not going through that again.” Has anyone else experienced anything similar?