Should I just trust my gut?? UPDATE**

I hope this is the right group, if not I’m so sorry.

I’m 17. An in a relationship still young, but lately in my relationship I’ve been feeling like my SO is changing...I don’t know if I’m over reacting or what I should do to fix anything that’s off.

Okay here’s what’s happening and my gut feeling

1. He’s been more worried about his personal hygiene and looks more then ever, yet we never see each other anymore due to my parents.

Gut: maybe he just wants to be better 🤷🏻‍♀️

2. He’s been more worried about looking good down there then before. Yet we can’t have sex anymore because I’m high risk with my pregnancy.

Gut: He says it’s because of trying to impress me, but I don’t care he’s perfect how he is.

3. He said a friend gave him condoms but they’ve been going missing but he says he gave them back because we dont use them, (his friend denied having the condoms..)

Gut: I’m crazy for this one he said he’d never cheat so I don’t think he would.

4. He allows girls to flirt with him and tells me all bout it but goes along with the girl allowing it.

Gut: what should I do?

5. He doesn’t allow me to have my own opinion and threatens to leave anytime I say I feel, unhappy or don’t trust him.

Gut: what should I do?

6. He gets mad anytime I don’t respond quick or say I love you

Gut: Am I doing something wrong?

7. He’s been lying more often

Gut: no ones perfect

I have no idea If it’s just me. I need some kind advice please, i don’t just have a mom I could ever talk to about these things and never got taught the things about guys I should’ve known about.

My gut says it’s just me and I should stay but problem solve, so what should I do? Should I trust my gut???

UPDATE #1

I waited a while to do a update and make sure of things. But he decided to call me and say “we need to have a serious talk.” I agreed. So we did after he got home from work. He first wanted me to write down a list of things he needs to work on then he’d do the same with me. The talk went well and he kept saying, we can do this we got this! It’s been two days to three since the talk and things are going smoothly. Well today I really needed to vent my baby’s fathers grandma was taking my head off about having my bf In the labor and delivery room but he’s the one I feel comfortable with not her grandson but where separated as well he left me in the beginning and just came back of course my mom is so pissed and is going to try and stop my bf as well so I woke up and called my bf and explained everything, he quietly sat there and listened and for once had sympathy for me. I felt so loved and was so glad he kept apologizing for everyone coming after me for my decisions and he for once accepted it might be best if he doesn’t come just to keep things cool. We shall see what happens though🙏🏻 please just pray for me.