First time mom speaking. My daughter is 3 weeks old and I can’t help but feel some slight resentment towards her for taking all the attention away from me from my fiancé.

We’ve been together 3 years and I’ve always been the center. I can name maybe a handful of days that we haven’t been in a good place with each other or that I’ve felt i didnt get enough attention. Now that our baby is here there’s been an intense shift in where he focuses. Believe me I know that’s how it should be. He helps more than I could ask for, never complains and always holds her. He loves her so much and its the best feeling to watch him be a dad. I don’t know why I feel like this and it makes me feel even worse. Like sometimes I just look at her and feel nothing. And then other times I can just hear her cry and feel like the luckiest person on earth. I feel like a shit parent and I just want to know how to fix this. I tried to talk to him about it and he just looked at me like I was crazy for saying how I felt, and then we sat in silence for 10 minutes until I left the room.