Cumming??

Question

So when I masturbate I think I orgasm but I don’t cum. Like I feel like I’m going to but nothing comes out. Can you orgasm and not cum? How can I get myself to cum?

Answer

Cum = orgasm
Women don’t produce ejaculate like men do when they orgasm

Answer

If you orgasm, you have reached the peak of your sexual response. Are you sure you are having an orgasm? Cuming is the slang term for having an orgasm for women.
There is a lot of confusion about fluids emitted by women during sex. What you read in Cosmo, on web sites, and self-help books are mostly old and based on discredited or outdated research. It is also written to make it sensational, to sell books, to sell sex toys, to give up your email address, or sell magazines. 

There are a number of fluids and reservoirs of fluid around your reproductive organs:

There are the Bartholin’s glands, with one opening on either side of the vaginal opening. These are the equivalent of the male Cowper’s glands, the glands secreting pre-cum (pre-ejaculate). It is thought to be responsible for lubricating and disinfecting the vaginal opening. The fluid is clear or milky, like male pre-cum. The Bartholin’s glands produce only a few drops of fluid.

Paraurethral glands and the Skene’s glands. The paraurethral glands is the equivalent glands to the male prostate glands. The Skene’s glands are two small openings next to the urethral opening (pee hole) that also gets fed from these paraurethral glands. The paraurethral glands are a thin layer of tissue around your urethra, and it’s got small holes opening up into the urethra. The Skene’s glands come out in two little holes next to your pee hole (urethral meatus). Fluid from these glands are clear or milky in color. It has the same consistency and amount of fluid than male semen (a teaspoon or two at most). This is because these are the same glands that produces semen in a male. It tastes sweet. Most women secrete fluid from these glands in very small quantities. If you secrete a visible amount of fluid, it is called female ejaculation. This can happen during sexual stimulation or orgasm.

There is the bladder. The bladder can contain a lot more watery fluid. This fluid can be clear to yellow, depending on how hydrated you are. It normally does not smell when it comes out, but when it dries on clothes, bedding, or furniture, it will have that distinctive urine smell. Through MRI and ultrasound imaging during sexual arousal, researchers can see that the bladder goes into overdrive during sexual stimulation. This is likely due to the massively increased blood flow and oxygen to the organs in the pelvic region. Women often describe this as a feeling of having to pee during sex. 

Unlike men that cannot release urine when they have an erection, women can freely release urine. This can happen due to pressure on the bladder, or pressing the bladder sphincter muscle from inside the vagina, often in search of that so called G-spot. There are also other conditions that can cause this, like an overactive bladder, stress incontinence or other forms of incontinence. This release can be helped along by orgasmic contractions or penetration. 

When fluid from the bladder is released during sexual activity, it is normally called squirting or gushing. The amount can be up to a cup or two. It can just gush out, or it can squirt out. It can happen during penetration, stimulation (clitoral or vaginal) or during orgasm. It can be helped along by pushing out or bearing down like you do on the toilet.

Cervical mucus - This is the normal discharge you see on a day to day basis in your panties or on toilet paper. Your mucus changes throughout your cycle, and can be a lot, or almost nothing. This mucus is there to help, protect, and feed sperm on their journey to your uterus, or to block the cervical opening when you are not fertile. This is a mechanism to keep germs out of your insides when. During sexual activities, more of this mucus can come out.

Arousal fluid – This is plasma and mucus squeezed from your vaginal lining when you engorge with blood and get hot. This is a light and clear fluid, that will dry up fairly quickly. When a woman says she is wet, she normally means that this arousal fluid made her wet. Arousal fluid can appear from just thinking about something sexy or seeing something sexy. You may also not even notice every time this happens. There is a theory that certain spots inside the vagina can be pressed, and when pressed, will increase the amount of arousal fluid. There is however no proof that this is real.

Flow-back (old semen) – If a guy ejaculates inside you, his jelly like semen turns into a thin liquid in waves over the next 30 minutes. This allows the sperm to escape gradually and find its way to your cervix and up into your uterus. The rest of the semen (most of it) stays behind forming this thin clear or milky liquid. When you are no longer sexually aroused, your vaginal walls will just collapse onto itself. This will trap this liquid and it will slowly escape from your vagina over the next day. You can do kegels when you pee to force this out quicker and you can use panty liners to keep your underwear clean and dry afterwards. This fluid will often have a slight bleach smell.

Answer

You can try rubbing your clit

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