Do I have a right?

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Just got into a relationship with my friend, we’re one month in and his recent ex uses his Netflix, she has her own account on there. I can’t help but feel some type of way about this.. never been in a situation like this so I’m not sure I guess I have mixed emotions?

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I get it’s just Netflix but if you’re over and done with something everything should get cut off. No matter how minor or major it is... casually bring it up.

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Who cares? They share Netflix, not underwear.

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It wouldnt bother me. Its just a netflix account.lol

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I got upset when I was newly dating my bf and his ex had a user acc on his netflix too. He said her kids mostly use it (they arent his kids btw) but he was perfectly fine with changing the password and taking her off the acc. He said I'm what's important to him. They can get their own Netflix if they really want it. Bring it up to you bf. Communication is important

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That's a silly thing to be bothered by 🙈

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Usually when you break up you don't share things like that anymore...

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I would say at this early stage in your relationship I wouldn’t say anything about it, it’s a small annoyance, once you’re more serious if it still bugs you you can mention it. I understand how you feel though, my husband was married & had a child before me, I was super annoyed by all the reminders (& the actual physical presence!) of his ex when we 1st started dating but I tried to keep it all in so as not to alienate his son, 
we’ve been together now for over 6 years & there’s still a profile that used to be hers that I eventually renamed “Guest” & if we have someone at our house to petsit or babysit we ask them to use that one. I do still get annoyed when we receive mail that is addressed to the 2 of them as if they’re still married (she remarried too & has a different last name now) but I know it’s a dumb thing to be annoyed by :)

Do I have a right?

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