To explain further, I’ll use my real life examples I’m dealing with.

Currently 7 weeks pregnant. My boyfriends can’t agree with or compromise with me at all. One example is with naming. I’ve always wanted to name my daughter after my grandma who passed many years ago. He didn’t like the name (sometimes I think it’s simply because I want it that he goes against it) I compromised and said we could change the first time but second name has to stay or vice versa, I just want part of my grandma involved. He continues to rudely argue About it. If it’s a boy he wants the boy to have his second name (which I find terrible) but I compromised and said we could use the name and find a first name that went well with it. He needs that second name because it’s his and his fathers. His father means a lot to him. But my grandma means a lot yo me? If I can compromise why can’t he?

I also want my child to have both his last name and mine. But he said it can’t have my last name because he says so. He doesn’t like two lady names. It needs to have only his last name because his family origin is of high kind like people in Peru, where his from. And my last name don’t mean anything. It isn’t important

In general he don’t want anything from my family Involved into the child. His family in his eyes are just more important and my family’s history being involved doesn’t mean much. I’ve tried talking to him but once the next big decision comes up it’s the same situation again. It had to be what he want and says.