Today has been a harder day than usual. I'm currently 33w with our first, so I'm scrambling to change our birth plan to an option other than the hospital in case they won't allow my husband to attend (birth center and home birth). This in itself is stressful, but not the worst of today.

First, my mother in law, who is one of my greatest friends and who we currently live with was admitted for afib. Scary normally, worse with this virus going around.

Then my best friend tells me that she and her husband, who are 13w with their first, received the news that their baby will not make it to term and have chosen to move forward with letting their baby go (terminating the pregnancy). Please tell me how I can support her, especially now that I can't just go sit by her side. I feel completely lost other than to say I'm here and I love you. Thanks for your help. ❤️

*Please no comments on their decision to terminate.